More and more African American women have never been asked to be married


More and more African American women have never been asked to be married

Well! We often hear that African American women are dating more and more outside of their race. Let’s be precise, we often hear that African American women with high education and high ranking position in the society prefer dating outside of their race. Let’s be even more precise, we hear more and more that highly educated and high ranking African American women rather date white men than black men. Another statistic came out the other day saying that more and more African American women have never been asked to be married.

Every time a statistic comes about that subject, the media, black people, commentators, talk-show are jumping on the news and talk about the “what could push those women to go out with white men” or the “what could be the problem with those women” or the “what could be the problem with black men”. Of course this could not be a natural thing, it has to be because there is a problem either with them or with black men or with men or the society in general. I am not even saying that black women are thinking like this. I am saying that the whole society is thinking like this.

The society and black people often come up with different reasons that are revolving around the problems that they had with black men. It is common to hear those women say that they have difficulties to find black men who could match their social status, their standards or their expectations. They talk about the cheating problem and the venereal diseases that are coming with it, the beating that occurs from times to times etc. Ahhahahaah!!!! What can I say? BLACK MEN, it is your fault. Actually everything is your fault.

Some statistics are saying that more and more highly educated African American are single or are marrying outside of their race or have never been asked to be married. When the numbers are out, everybody compares them with the numbers of other races and they explained it by saying that there is a high number of black women than men, many black men are in jail, many black men do not have a job and therefore the consequences are that more black women are single.

Now, I just have one question. Why should people get married? Where is it written that people must be married? Why is it that people think that there is something wrong about being single? The numbers are showing a trend that is on every race. More and more women are single. It is therefore not necessarily a black women issue although the numbers are higher in that community as it is a general trend that is occurring not only the US but also in the entire world.

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